well she is still acting distant and when she dropped the kids off today she hugged me and then at a moment where we normally would have leaned in and kissed she said "im not kissing you" WTF ? where this came from i have no idea threw me off a bit
well the only thing i can think of is i told her i wanted to talk and she got upset and said about what and i told her well we need to talk about the kids. the girls dont have school in a couple weeks and we need to talk about the kids. she seems very reluctant for even that talk maybe this has her in defence mode?
well we had talked about going to six flags a few times this summer (while she was still with OM) and after some thinking (how we are to remove all the reasons the WAS left IE me not going on fun outings such as sixflags)
so i got bold and invited her to go this week. she said in a joking manner i dont have to bribe her to talk to me..
i told her how i got a really good deal on the tickets and i doubt there will be much "talking" when we are there.. maybe im setting back the DB but I cant help thinking how often I see it said in here we need to be comfortable as friends, remove the reasons for leaving and every stitch is differant and there is no set rule or time. I hope im going in the right direction but one thing i see is she jumped at the idea.
oh another note... way back she said we could not work because she would not want me talking to my friends she would not feel comfortable around them...
well i remember last week we were hanging out with my friends and when she picked up the kids saturday she got them at my other friends house. she even got out of her van held a puppie and talked to me for a long time there... sure seems like she is comfortable around them now???? maybe im reading too much into this IDK or maybe these babie steps are what we need to move forward
