It's not harsh. It's true. Stop thinking about what she is doing. There were plenty of times I let my H think I was out with the girls and in reality, I was exactly where I wanted to be: At home, alone with a great book or movie or girlfriends came to my place. He got it in his own head I was "out". Not true and honestly, I did nothing to make him think otherwise. As a matter of fact I would drop off S and look smoking hot, like I was going out.
