Gee, no comments about my Jingle Bell Rock dream? Well, anyway, I thought it was pretty telling.
Today I collected all H's bills that still come here and wrote OW's address in the "change of address" box and will send them out tomorrow. In an email over a month ago he said he was getting a new address and he would send it to me. I don't know if he meant he was moving out or just getting a P.O. Box but he never gave it to me.
This summer I sent several large envelopes full of his mail to the Catbitch address but he never aknowledged it. Until today I was still putting them in a pile on the kitchen counter. Why?
He hasn't been here since May. He hasn't even asked about his beloved salt water aquarium - the one reason he used to continue stopping by all last year. I do what I can but there are only 2 poor little fish left and the red stuff, whatever that is, is quickly growing over everything.
Does he wonder what's happening to it? Does he think I'm caring for it? Does he care?
Anyway, I've also given some bill collectors who've been calling here the OW's home phone number. Ha! They don't want his cell number. What choice do I have?
Pretty soon she should also be receiving his favorite football team's monthly magazine. He's had a subscription for years with an automatic annual renewal. They've been stacking up too until I finally realized, duh, I can go online and change the address. Just like magic!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10