I'll hop over to you in a second, have just got to work.
I don't know about being streets ahead, I don't even know if what he was going on about last night is any good sign, I found it all a bit bizarre.
Anyway I am going to vent a bit here so I don'trush and say something stupid to him.
Just checked out the jetski website he is part of, it is run by the same group that he rides with, my H is the chairman of the committee so heavily involved.
The have done their write up of the trip away complete with the usual photos.
Photos of my H dressed in a wig, tight as jim bean shirt on undone to his navel. Acting like an idiot dancing on top of the bar and then another one of him with hands on some tarts hips and her holding him. Now I really wanted to say something to him, but have held back.
Should I comment on the photos, he knows I will have seen them or do I hold my tongue.
I do hope that as Dudess and Nell has said that he is now realising that he may not be able to hold onto me and it is times like these when I see these photos that I really wonder do I want to hold onto him, is that what I want in an H. I know they are entitled to go out and have fun, we all are, but it shouldn't involve any disrespect for the person you supposedly love and cherish.
I really need him to know that but without him thinking I am trying to put a stop to him going out and having fun doing his GAL stuff. But I am not sure that this is the right time to say this as there has been no real R talk, only him last week saying he wants to work on "us".
