Also forgot to say that after we came home, he then started talking about fantasies and did I have any (sex we are talking about here), he told me his (which weren't that out of the ordinary and nothing disgusting thank heavens). Asked me questions about his performance etc etc. good heavens what a night.
I then eased into using Gucci's tactic of telling him indirectly that "he can't cake eat and that I don't share", I didn't want to push him too much so chose my words carefully, his response was to look at me and say "I don't share you with anyone either".
He then went on to say that whatever he is going through at the moment has nothing to do with sex. So at least he admits and realises that something is going on in his head, he just doesn't know what it is.
I will continue giving him his space with no pressures and I will continue with my current and future planned activities.
Really not sure what his brain is processing at the moment.
