Your wife is really confusing....but that isn't much of a surprise here. She wants a divorce, she isn't happy, she is pushing the separation, but you start giving her what she wants and it angers her. I am sorry to say Walter, but I would almost suggest moving to the mid-life crisis board. The more you post, the more it sounds like MLC. I would say there is a lot of resentment starting to come out also. After the separation everything was supposed to be better for her, but instead you are being happy. That is probably driving her nuts and she is lashing out because of it.
I would definitely take some time and look at the MLC board...I think it may be a better place for you.
