I read some of that. These WAW Spouses don't seem swift enough to understand that they apply a double standard. We should be embarrassed for them. They are delusional and self deceptive.
They maintain a double standard that paints them in a glowing light while we are so forgiving that we allow them to demoralize us because we want to save our marriages. Why do we do it?
Maybe we see divorce as the ultimate lie and we are codependent to the point that we don't want to see the one we loved so much be that liar.
I don't see that very many people here have actually gotten back to their marriages. It's too bad because I know that all things being equal they could be but the problem is that all things are not equal.
