Journaling:

In July, my W and I took a trip. During that trip she decided that she would quit her job and we would move several thousand miles away, my company was offering me the relocation, as a last ditch effort to get away from OM. It was a wonderful trip. The first day back from the trip, she resigned and told OM that she was done. We started preparing the house for sale and everything seemed to progressing well.

About a week after our return, she had the allergic reaction to her meds. Her friend told her that the move was a terrible idea and that she should explore her feelings instead. The MC also said the move was an impulsive decission and probably not a good idea. She went back to her job and started talking to OM again.

Anyway, on that trip, she bought me a little nordic medallion symbolizing inspiration & transformation. I have worn it around my neck everyday since. That is until this morning, the strap must have broke and the medallion is gone. I feel horrible about it. I know it is just a thing, but it meant so much to me... and her.

Last edited by tristan; 09/13/09 05:35 PM.

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1