WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

I guess my biggest struggle from Friday's call was we had ended it by saying we would need to rebuild the trust in order for us to have any relationship. I suspect she is thinking co-parenting as best friends. I know I would want it to be as husband and wife but don't see how it would be possible after all that has happened.

Bottom line though, I'm not going to work on anything as long as she isn't approaching it openly, honestly and respectfully. So while we are still married, it is disrespectful to have other parties should not be involved.

I've told her that during the call. I hope she gets it

I did get a few tactical text from her today about kids stuff. There was one about her car.

I thought the call on Fri went as well as it could have but now I'm not so sure. Perhaps I gave some control back to her.

I got to get my game face on for the party soon

Wish me luck!