FB...you are doing what the DB C told me. In the unlikely event that H expressed a desire to actually make an effort, I would treat him as I would any other man. I would not move in with him right away, that sort of thing.
He should not be sharing these things with your D and I would ask him not to.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D