My 2 best GFS were having a party for the kids today. These are people that we hacve known for ages but are clearly MY friends.I was supposed to meet H to pick up the kids to take them to the party. It was his weekend but the kids are close and wanted to go. He said he would bring them there. He comes and lingers up to the point that my one GF offered coffee. That was it! He stayed for the entire party. There 3-4 couples "of" my girlfriends and he KNOWS they know because one of those that had the party was the one that came to my rescue when I found the emails. It was SOOO weird. My friends were wondering if this is normal, divorcing and wanting to spend time with "us". Of course he was totally into the kids but he did mingle and talked to the Hs of my friends and me some. I was distant but polite.
OK, any takes on how you explain that? You divorce your wife, have a GF and then what...? You play happy family again? This just aint normal. At least not in THIS country.
He looked sad and embarassed. Still, he did not opt to leave as the plan was when he brought the kids. And I didnt leave any opening, he made my GF feel she had to offer him a coffee since he stayed there for so long and wasnt leaving.
I am loosing my mind. This man is crazy. He needs serious help and counceling. And I cant do it. K
