I have been reading some of the posts here and had to write. I am in R now for the last 5 years. In the last 2.5 yrs there has been no ML at all. We use to ML every single night till we moved to another state 3.5 yrs ago. Then it went to twice week, 3 yrs ago and now none for the last 2.5 yrs. There is hugs and kisses but no touching. I have spoken to my SO, that maybe he should go to the dr. He knows of the time frame and says yeah and nothing is done about it. He states everyday that he loves me, and is so busy around the house. He does drink and more so in the last year and half. That I hate to come home at all. Im at a cross roads now and I dont know what to do..He states that he loves me but you know I dont have the same feelings for him anymore like I use too. At first I was blaming myself..I gained a few pounds but so did he. Then maybe cause I was working later and more days but that wasnt it at all. I am at a loss ...do I stay or do I go. Any help would be so appreciated.
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H-43 W-52 M-6/21/90 LU-NIL-7/03 M/OUT- 7/03 Found out @ OW-7/03 (was involved before the move out) D- 6/23/05 (married 15 yrs- together 17 yrs)
