She put her rings back on.

And it's kind of a funny story. We went for a drive yesterday and ended up at our favorite winery. We sat out on the patio enjoying a beautiful afternoon while having a glass of our favorite wine. I looked at W and said "last weekend you told me you were going to put your wedding rings back on" and W smiled and said "yeah, I was going to, but I went to get them and they were buried in my jewelry box which is under another box that I couldn't lift off, so when we get home if you'll lift that box off, I'll put them back on". I almost got sarcastic and said "If I'll move the box"?, but I didn't.

So when we got home we went upstairs and I moved the box and she got them out and put them on. I was kind of disappointed because I wanted to put them on her fingers, but she beat me to the punch. But that's ok. They're on her fingers and the sight almost brings tears to my eyes.

We had some really nice conversations and for a little bit had some A discussions. Not the heavy stuff, but we talked about the one dik at W's work that is having an A with a woman that also works there. This woman's H also works there and recently someone in his work area put some graffiti up questioning his manhood because he's letting this guy sc*ew his wife. So we talked about that and I told her if I was the guy that was having an affair with this lady and her H worked there, I would watch my back. I then said "ya know, it was a very good thing in our sitch that OM moved 250 miles away before I found out because extreme violent thoughts involving a ball bat were going through my head when I did". W said "I know".

We talked about a number of things like that. I'm becoming encouraged that W will open up to me and answer my questions when the time comes, but I'm not going to go Spanish Inquisition on her and scare her away. I plan on just letting these things come up in the course of normal conversation and then ask just a few questions at a time so I don't over load her.

We stopped and got pizza and came home and watched the OSU-USC game which broke our hearts. But at least the Buckeyes were in it to the end. I know there are no medals for second place, but it was a he!! of a lot better than a blowout! We went to bed and wink blush wink And man was it hot!

Have a lot to accomplish today before leaving again tonight for a week out of town for work. I really don't want to go, but what ya gonna do?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.