I'm glad to hear you are coming through this great. I mentioned before that your W and my W are very similar. Right now she's in the cold, distant phase but I'm seeing more of her old self emerge.
Is that how it was in your sitch? Did you try flirting with your W when you saw her softening?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.