Not much been happening with me. H has been away for a couple of weeks for work, so only very short calls pretty much about kids once a day.
I have been working on my PMA which had no reason to take a dive for a few days. Lots of exercise was a good starting point. Changed quite a few little things around in the house, feels better for me, getting nice feedback from visitors. Accepting all invitations to go out, and inviting others over much more than usual.
Don't tell H much of my GAling, but do sent Txt photos (no words) of toddlers from all sorts of places, top of amusement ride at country fair, running through feild wildflowers in desert, picnic beach our family spot sunny day etc. Thats been in the last month.
Think I have recharged ready for the unconditional love side of it. Reset expectations to zero. Prepared for H to drop leaving bomb again(as predicted by horroscope!). Sent H txt telling him how much I appreciated he was doing. He responded very well to that the following day, much longer conversation.
I find after spending a bit of time away from H it can be a good time to present myself as a different person, so will buy couple causal outfits to remind myself. Will up the boundary setting on the minor issues over the line, see how that goes.
