Well, the past week has been tough. I pretty much went to NC because I was able to talk to the kids in the afternoon before she gets home from work. She called and or texted me several times each day but always made it about house type stuff or arranging for me to have the kids this weekend. She has become more hostile towards me with each passing day and I just stay happy and ACT as if all is well. She even asked me on Tuesday why everything was so good last weekend and then I can go to this. I played it off as if it was no big deal. I have each one of my kids for one night this weekend (I was thinking it would make it better for them having the individual attention the first time around).
Anyway, she is going out of town for work next week (been planned for about 6 months) and her mom and aunt came into town to watch the kids. I saw them Friday and was very nice and we exchanged hugs and I ACTED as if everything was good but not over the top. I am afraid that my LC/NC and "good with the situation" attitude will drive her further away now.
I am wondering if she is just making herself me mad at me or what the deal is. I will be able to have NC with her next week due to her trip. I feel lime she is acting like a 2 yr old because I am not up her a$$. It is like she is forcing anger or something. From what I have read this is common but I am hoping it is just her initial reaction to LC/NC.
