FG how old is your S? Mine is 21 and when this whole sorry mess started for me, H & I agreed that we would not make him side with either of us. There have been times when H has crossed the line with S and tbh it has made the mother in me see red. Thankfully my S is old enough and gutsy enough to tell H where to get off is he pushes his luck too much. IMHO its probably good to set your S the best example of how to behave in a really horrid situation, and let him see H being a bad example of a father, let S know you are always there to talk to him about things.
Echo Cat brilliant news that you are starting to recognise your own needs and move them up the list of priorities.
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