Good girl! You are picking this up much quicker than I did and you are more determined, too.
Perhaps you should just let H know about the death and say just that -> you will ask your mum to let him know the funeral details. That would shock him!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"