I'm sorry to hear about your friends passing though it was what she was ready for, seemingly. She will be back with her loving husband and that's the best news.
This is an easy dilema, as far as I see it. Either use email or text but NO PHONE. Remember short and blunt - you can miss out on mysterious this time! Such:
"H, just to let you know that (friend) passed away at 4am this morning. Will let you know funeral details as and when they come through".
Nothing else needs to be said.
So glad that you had a nice time last night ... more of what works and let's hope that it does get back to H that you didn't roll in until 3am - that will be a big and stunning 180 for him to swallow, won't it?!!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"