I'm new wondering if this works...

[BigJohn]

I'm so impatient - he's not fully back and god I want him - he still lives somewhere else and swears there's an OW - although I don't see her ! Remember the Brady Bunch - when Jan made up that she had a boyfriend so that people would think she was desirable enough to have a bf? I call H's OW "George Glass" b'c he is accountable for himself 99% of the time.

He swears George Glass won't be going - and offers to be up front about who is going with him. But rubs my face in it that I"m not invited.

And, although he swears no OW is going - he boasts "now that we are separated I have every right to go with who I want and spend whatever money I want." Now why does he need to strut this independance at the very time he is back and acting more like my H than he has in six months?
I guess I have to "Keep ironing and watching family guy" - just seem to hardly notice that he's going to the RF without me. But it gets my goat - I guess that is why he's doing it? I have no idea. Advice people?

Hope,

I think you may be on to something. As a very confident man myself, I would never find the need to "announce" to anyone- including to my W whom I'm separated from (not me, him) -that I'm romantically involved with another W. Your H is motivated by a lack of confidence in himself and probably the sitch he finds himself in. There may or may not actually be OW- it's possible that your H is pulling your leg in order to gain some advantage over you and/or control (in his mind at least) over the sitch. Even if there is an OW, why wouldn't he want to take her to the RF? That part doesn't quite make sense.

I'm curious- what would happen if you went on a (friend) date with another guy to the RF yourself?