Is this the time for me to invite H to dinner one evening next week? He wants to talk to me about finances and I have to tell him about my job. I would also like to get him to agree to do some stuff that is required around the home and gardens that I can't tackle for myself.

How about:

"There is some stuff we need to discuss. Are you able to meet this coming week? I'm happy to catch up nearer to you if it's easier and you would prefer not to come down. Perhaps we could go for some coffee, or even dinner, somewhere?"


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09