I wonder if you aren't too available to her right now. It seems to me she has the best of all worlds. She gets to keep her "best friend" while D'ing that "best friend." I would pull back, not in a cold and callous manner. I would GAL my a$$ off right now. She needs to miss you, and she won't do that if you are always around as the safety net for a dinner out or whatever.
And you are still struggling with not pursuing. This,
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At one point, I said I missed going to the Mexican place next door, she said me too, and I said, well we should do that.
is pursuit.
In her eyes, nothing she cares about is going to change. She can D you and you will still be "great friends." When my W told me this, it pi$$ed me off. And, no, if we D, we will NOT be friends. Friends don't do that to one another.
