He followed up by asking "what's up - someone bump you?" ...
What does that mean?
With regard to getting back to you Monday I know that it hurts that H is with OW but I'm not sure what else he was supposed to answer. It seems like he was being courteous telling you he can't do it until Monday. This might actually be your issue more than his and I can understand why. However, you can't really say anything to him about it because it shows you are rattled and in reality he hasn't said he is with ow, you have presumed it.
