Two months ago my husband wrote me a letter saying that he had met someone. First it was innocent but the texting and phone calls kept on until there was more. My husband is a police officer so he met this girl actually by giving her a ticket. I have reason to believe that this girl is a lesbian but is playing with my husbands emotions. I have seen pictures of this girl with another one doing some pretty risque things.

Back to the point. About two weeks ago I told him maybe he needed to move out for a little bit to get his mind straight to see if he missed me and our son. The first week was hard. The next week I got really jealous when he wasn't where he said he would be and really made him mad. So we went back a few steps. This last week I didn't really talk to him. The one thing that really bothers me is he doesn't even check on our son but maybe once a week. I don't know what to do. I am going to try to be strong and weather the storm because I feel in my heart that the real him will come back to me. We have been married almost 5 years but have been together for 11 years. We are high school sweethearts that had that kind of love people envied.

Up until that letter we have never fought. It was definitely like we were still in the honeymoon stage. We did everything together. He never really complained about anything. So I was totally hit hard with this news.

M 26
H 28
S 1.5