Are you a sadist, masochist, optimist, codependent, independent, self confident, self assured, strong, insecure?
I know I was all of the above any number of times. Then again my spouse completely and totally left to the woman he was involved with and later married. And he did me a favor.
He was adamant about divorcing, never wavered. Yet I clung onto my beliefs.. in marriage, in family even when it made no sense.
It's a process, Ms. K... and you learn as you go. When you feel yourself 'weaken'.. is it out of sorrow, pity, or belief in the future, the past?
Listen to your bullshit meter, pay attention to your inner voice. And if red flags start waving, take action.
