Time of desperation!

[stephanie]

I did get the DR book and have found it very helpful. I am starting to put some of my new found tools to work. This morning was good we had a laugh and shared a hug or 2. Yesturday was good too. For the first time it 2 weeks we talked on the phone, and he was actually having a conversation with me via text. I know that these things would not seem like a huge deal to someone not in my shoes, but to me these small steps are good. We are going to have friends over tonight that we have not seen in a long time. This should be a good thing. Give him a taste of when things were happier. Sometimes that assocation of a couple who was around during the good is a good thing. Not only that it is someone else who can look from the outside and see what is going on. Then it is not just me trying to figure things out it is someone who maybe able to say we are heading in the right direction or not.

I wish all of you luck today.... stay strong.