Remember, beleive none of what you hear, and half of what you see. I would say that your W and OM are telling each other what they want to hear. I would beleive none of it, but at the same time, take steps to protect yourself. It's time to get all of you ducks in a row and be the adult. It's like having a teenager in the house!
Make sure you keep a record of all these emails if you can.
Thanks SG. Exactly my take on it. I know that during the course of the A my W has been showering OM with positive affirmations i.e. "You are a great person", "You are a winner", etc. I'm sure he has been doing the same. Both of them have self-esteem issues, that is part of the mutual attraction.
California is a no-fault D state so the emails are of little value.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
