No, apparently to WAW a marriage is binary. It's either perfect or it's a catastrophe; you're either matched or you're doomed; you either see everything the same way or you're polar opposites.
You could not have explained it any better!
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done