Hi Kat.. yes I think you are right, thank goodness that phase of our lives and his is over.. I still spring to tears when U think of his Dad, it was such a difficult time.. to suddently have to take care of this funny, but beligerant depressed man with a stroke, after being fairly absent from his sons life, emotionally, for the past 20 years. I'm sorry I couldnt help more on the soulmate thing.. but trust your intuition hey!

I'm having a real 'letting go' weekend.. of the past. I feel like I am more in love with him than ever, if that were possible. He just looks so happy and is being so lovely, its hard to tear myself away from him, I feel such a sap. x