Now this "paralysis by analysis" thing @gucci whipped out is clever, but may be simply an example of a different kind of avoidance behavior. "Just because it feels right doesn't mean it's the right thing to do" - how many times does one encounter that bit of DB wisdom? So who's to say that it only operates in one direction? Isn't it equally possible that just because reconciling "feels" right - huzzah my marriage is saved - that in the grand scheme of things it isn't right? How often does one see a "sad to be back" thread?
