Need to really make changes for me (thread #3)

[BeingMe]

STOP contacting your H, Vickd!!!! There! I've written it in blunt words. Whenever you are tempted, imagine a huge stop sign and a loud alarm and step away from the phone.

You know, it's pointless having these little arguments. It doesn't get anything resolved. So, I would advise that you go dark, and try to detach. Have you started GAL yet? That might help you resist the temptation to phone H.

Good luck, and don't phone. STOP!!!!