After 14 months post-bomb, I ask myself, what is so amazing about him? He's not worth this, etc. It's a phase I have.
For me, given a very different situation then yours, it's still worth it. And the kids will always be worth it.

But if I have to look at the marraige as it was pre-bomb... it was pretty crappy. So obviously I do not want to go back to that marriage but to a better one with my hubby. (If that will ever happen)

But, and I hate to do this, to quote the character Claire from the tv show Heroes; "50% of marriages end in divorce... but how many of the remaining 50% in their marriages are actually happy?"

Gets you thinking.

Last edited by june72; 09/12/09 03:55 PM.
M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)