Back to love BAnk/TAnk - sorry if this is a hijack - don't a lot of people doing DB feel like the love tank is only being filled one way? I certainly do. In my effort to get H back, I keep trying to meet his emotional needs. But there's not a whole lot coming back. Hopefully someday that will change , but am I the only one who feels this way? Doesn't that preclude the whole premise? Aren't people supposed to be filling love tanks for each other? ARg! It just made me sad that he doesn't care to fill up my love tank.
