PS Even though my H is the one filing papers, and as PISSSSSSED as this makes me - I will not comprimise my S. Just remember how a sane person would view this. I want my S to have as much of his father as he needs. I also want to spend as little $$ as possible. IF this means throwing less at a L so that I get a little less in the end, fine by me. The D is a big waste of $$ and if she wants to throw money away fighting about it, she is crossing her emotions with rationality. DELUSIONAL>
