Originally Posted By: BigJohn

Hope,

These are traits I see in my W- not a good combination. They certainly make our jobs as LBSs much more difficult.

You are getting some great advice as usual from Stronger. When you make the changes you need to make for you- and not for someone else- that's the catalyst that makes everything fall into place.

Keep your chin up!

THank you BJ. Yeah I have a realllllllly hard time with the stubborn, they're all out to get me, it's not my fault crap. It just doesn't register. I do the opposite. I always blame myself. I don't see short of dumping him what will make him see his immature attitude. But we can't make them see it. THey have to see it on their own.

Hang in there BJ.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship