Yes Rye, same thing for me. It was my W that called to tell me something was happening. She was watching the news and relaying it to me via phone.

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1