Shane,

What is it that you want? What is best for you and family?

I think you are correct to be apprehensive.

I suppose my response to WAW wanting to come home would be something along the lines of "I'm afraid it's not that simple anymore."

Sounds like you are holding the power now. I would insist on no contact with OM. That's not negotiable.

What other ground rules would you want?

Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
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