I wonder if I should go, or be spending time with him, I work full time and I am a full time student, so I dont want to be neglecting him when I only have a limited amount of time anyway, Should I not go to the party, or is it GALing?
Well, I don't think you're neglecting him if he's invited and declined to go, although I can understand why he doesn't want to. Can you go just for an hour or two and then spend the rest of the time with him tonight? Or half the night at the party and then the 2nd half with him? Something like that.