Sleepover HERE arranged and confirmed with other parent - CHECK
Plethora of boxes piled on futon. Gosh, no one can sleep there - CHECK
Kidlet's bed - too much cat fur. My athsma, you know - CHECK
Hors d'ouevres ready to be placed on bar - CHECK
Supper for two planned involving H's garden (kids arrive fed from other house) - CHECK
Wine chilled - CHECK
So, the only way out of letting me sleep in the MBR with H is for H to sleep in kidlet's bed himself. And just so you know, the sleepover magically materialized while I was at jazz night. It was only an afterschool playdate at the other kid's house when I left. Did H set it up, thus triggering the whole bed quandary which he could then solve by inviting me into the master bed? Enquiring minds want to know.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137