Stuck, in the beginning I didn't want to move because I thought there was a better chance of resolution if we stayed under the same roof. I wouldn't say we are always arguing but we all know that kids don't need to see a whole lot of intense arguing for it to be damaging. And no we are not both short tempered, just me however, she is a very stubborn woman so the arguments go on for a very long time because we are both so stubborn.
