W: Sent an email asking about saturday. Haven't heard back. Race for the Cure is saturday. Need to know if I can plan to do with the girls.

Me: Did I miss a txt or something? It's your weekend dude.

W: Ok. The girls think you invited them to the party on sat. You should let them know.

Me: Oh yeah. We did get invited to XXX party in XXXXXXXX. I was on the fence since they were sick and it was your weekend. I know you haven't had much quality time with them lately.

Me: Party is Saturday night. No conflict with RFTC at all. What are your thoughts?

W: I'm OK with them going. I like them to have fun and that family seemed nice. They seemed excited. We can do something tonight and then the race in the morning. It's up to you.

Me: Well you know what my preference is smile I'll RSVP that we'll attend.

W: What time on Saturday

Me: Part starts at 8. You are really an awesome Mom.


So is it just me or is this the biggest load of sh*t you've ever seen? "She likes them to have fun" "and that family seemed nice"! c'mon. Is there any chance that she doesn't have an offer to do something with OM Saturday night?

Am I doing this right? Feels like I'm making a doormat of myself. Not feeling real good about it.


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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