Well a number of positive things happened in your sitch. You gave him space, listened and didn't enable his behavior.
He's going to keep doing what he wants to do until he's in so big of a hole that he's going to have no choice but to confront his issues rather than running away.
Keep doing what you're doing...taking care of yourself and your kids. And let him sort out his own problems.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
