A thought - the cake thing is making her happy. And if the cake thing can make her happy, then gosh almighty, maybe it wasn't *you* that was making her UNhappy
Yep. I have thought that for a while now. Same goes for the job she had briefly. I think a large part of the problem is she has lost some of her self worth. Things like this help her get that back, so I want to support them.
