I have to chime in here.... I guess I'm going to defend her.... Seriously, what could RSF possibly say to her and actually be standing on solid ground about her "affair"? I have to believe this is not an affair to her. This is a relationship post her marriage breaking up because HE LEFT HER.
Stronger, I get what you're saying and I am trying as hard as I can to assume responsibility for what I have done. For the most part I feel that I'm assuming 100% responsibility when in reality it was a joint venture that got W and I to the terrible place we were in just before I left.
I'm just trying to get a plan. I'm trying to figure out how to use DBing techniques to save my marriage. It is confusing, because we are still married and that means something to me. I also get that I told her I was finished and that meant something to her.
I guess I need something to hang my hat on here.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
