A thought - the cake thing is making her happy. And if the cake thing can make her happy, then gosh almighty, maybe it wasn't *you* that was making her UNhappy.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137