Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Hi CL,
I've really been too busy with selling a house and moving and getting the girls ready for school to focus on anything else. That may be part of the problem I realize...I still go to book club and am involved with the High School band support...I think now that things are settling down a bit I need to focus more on myself..its pretty easy for me to focus on everyone else, especially with teenage girls...
MC is helpful-had a session this morning after a doozy of an evening with H. We have some bad communication habits and certainly have some work there to do...sometimes we have a good connection, othertimes not...not sure how to minimize the 'disconnected' times and improve the connection overall... I think this is just such a long haul/process...I've just been discouraged lately..