There is a difference between BobbiJo "telling Dan what to say" and, as I suggested, letting Dan know what she'd like to hear...
And, if this is really about ending the R and starting anew with BobbiJo, then the call is more about Dan and BobbiJo than anything else. If he is serious, he will WANT her to hear the call (As in Sandy's case) and he will be HAPPY for collaboration/partnership.
