I think Breathe is very apt, certainly in my case, as part of my 180's learning to stop, breathe and think on things for 24hrs has totally changed me. I would certainly have acted first and thought after and now every time I put myself on hold, it amazes me what perspective I have 24hrs later.. Im in a MLC/WAS position, Im not really sure how much is what in his case, but I find most of the information helpful and constructive, the only thing I find is that a MLC is like living with a teenager it takes a long while to see the fruit and although they kick off they need the security of home more.. But then what do I know Im separated for seven weeks from my childhood sweetheart who I never in a squillion years thought would do any of this!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!