Also she had been trying by stepping up ML, but at that point it still felt like a chore from her without feeling. From her side, she was feeling that she was doing her part, trying very hard to step up her physical affection towards me and still not making me happy.
Do you have any specific advice on how to move through this stage? This is exactly where I am right now, and I am finding it very frustrating. We are both getting frustrated and sometimes it is leading to fights immediately before we ML. She feels she is doing enough. I feel like it's very planned and devoid of feeling.
I don't know how to take it to the next level. Sorry for hijack, but this just sounds way too familiar.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
