I think so. Him going out twice a week is business as usual. You going from Ms. Seductress to out on the town is a 180. He's getting comfortable with the cake eating. You may have just reminded him that he has to make a choice.
Good luck with the talk. I really understand being afraid of R talk. We hear all the time avoid it but, is that reasonable? Don't we eventually have to put on our big kid pants and face the issues?
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